My latest worry (lol add it to the list) is the amount of people who know about our cycle. Ideally I would prefer it if the only ones who knew were a few very close family and friends, unfortunately this is not the case. Due to a loose tongue around my leave requests at work most of my colleagues now know what is happening (don't get me started on that one) and because of how excited we were when our cycle was bumped a few months up the list, our friends also know because news that good you just can't keep to yourself!!! I know it's not the end of the world but in hindsight I definitely would have prefered to keep it to a couple of people that we can rely on and trust.
Also, originally I didn't really have a vent space like I do now, both here and on a couple of great online forums/groups. So I think the next cycle, if we need it (fingers, toes and everything else I can think of crossed that we don't!!) there will only be a small handful of people who know what is going on.
Anyway, as I said.. bugger all I can do about it now!
Embrace the support! It's too late now but the more people who know the more support you have so just embrace it and go with it. EVERYONE knows about me! No way I could keep the pregnancy a secret if I do get a BFP either!
ReplyDeletelol, but thats the point of these online forums. we dont have to keep it to ourselves but we dont have to tell people who dont understand if we dont make it to week 12 etc. *sigh* anyway, yes positive thoughts, yay for extra support!!
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